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Fess up! Do you get irritated/annoyed when people diss something you enjoy? [roundtable]
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Perhaps even ANGRY? Even though they aren't making a personal attack on you? (I guess it could be considered a personal attack, but I mean something that adversely affects you or someone important to you directly.) I always thought of myself as fairly level-headed, but I have to admit, I do get annoyed by what I perceive as unfounded ignorance towards something I like. Like, I was listening to some recent episode of Rebel FM (I only listen occasionally, when they discuss a game that interests me (or when Robert Ashley is on)), and they were talking about Nintendo, and blood was just pouring from my ears. I was like, "How could they be so fucking stupid and ignorant about an entire library?! Their job is to play and write about games!! They seem knowledgeable about every other console! And their tastes are both elitist and overly mainstream, while still being abysmal! WTF!!" But it doesn't always happen. If someone was to tell me the concrete reasons why they preferred one thing to another, I don't think I'd have any problem with their opinion. It's just that stupid, dismissive attitude that comes from ignorance, rather than personal experience. I seriously hate that shit. Especially when it seems to be the 'majority opinion', an accepted 'truth' among the community. I can recognize that the stem of that feeling is some sort of synaptical malfunction, though, a lack of maturity, where even though I know that I shouldn't give a shit about what people say, ESPECIALLY if it comes from a position of ignorance, I get irritated, anyway. Emotion should never override reason. There is a legitimate reason to be irritated by dismissive ignorance in the press, though, since it's so widespread. It probably HAS directly influenced the games that the Wii has received. Anyway, I also dislike a lot of things, many of them sacred cows, so maybe I should check my own behavior, but I'd like to think that I follow my internal rules and at least speak from personal experience with reasonable arguments. So how's about youse guys? URL to share (right click and copy)
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06/09/10, 17:31 |
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QFT about ignorant dismissals of things I enjoy. For instance, I know someone who deprecates video games as a waste of time and money every single time I see him (which thankfully isn't terribly often) and this infuriates me. I even explained to him that it's no different than any other form of entertainment, and that if you purchase games wisely, video games are on average cheaper than movies in dollars/hour of entertainment.
I mean, say Twilight Princess took you 50 hours to beat (a reasonable figure) and you paid $50 for it. Well, that's a dollar per hour of entertainment, as compared to a 2 hour movie for $20, which is $10/hr of entertainment.
Furthermore, I'd argue that I've gained more from video games than I've ever gained from movies as well. Sadly, some people are too narrow minded to consider a new viewpoint once they've made up their mind.
So, yeah, needless to say, although I'm fairly laid back overall, when someone ignorantly bashes something I love and enjoy, it's an entirely different story. I'd imagine this is true for most people. |
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Ugh, same here. I guess it's stronger with Nintendo-related-stuff since I feel particularly knowledgeable about that subject and it feels like relatively few others are. So they spew out their phrases ripped from the "Book of Volatile Cliches"--it gathers dust, it's got waggle, it's for your grandma, the only good game(s) is/are Mario Galaxy(s), etc.
Honestly, it's the same way when I see half-baked views on religion floating around. I don't hate when someone's opinion of religion differs from mine, but when I hear lines from people that are completely missing the point and have zero thought or effort put into them, it's just aggravating. And it's even worse when they've got this condescending, holier-than-thou (hey, irony) attitude towards it when it's clear they don't know the first thing about it. I say live and let live--I'm not one to preach to others to find Jesus or anything, but the amount of blunt "internet ire" that faith catches is just friggin' unbearable sometimes.
Our interests are part of who we are. Even smaller things like video games--to some degree--shape the kind of persona we have and collectively define us. This is especially true with belief systems, like religion and politics. So when someone says "Republicans are gun-toting hillbillies" or "Democrats are spineless attention-seekers," people take it personally. They are being insulted, and their family and friends are too. Similar to if you said "all Christians/Buddhists/Shinto/Atheists are stupid" or something. All of this stuff is extremely insulting and hurtful to people, and always stems from ignorance and humanity's desire to be "right." But hey, as long as you don't insult their race, it's fine, right?
Disagreement is fine, discussion is welcome. The problem I have is when disagreements become uncivil and rooted in ignorance. Then--like so many GCNGB threads before it--there's no reasoning with the trolls of the world. They're set in their uneducated ways and won't change their mind no matter how many "list of good Wii games" you throw at them. They prefer to sit in their closed-off bubble of hate, blissfully ignorant to the way things really are.
Anyway, I didn't mean to bring this thread into the heavy territory, but I'm just sick of the pushiness, arrogance, and ignorance on the internet. It's a horrid place to be sometimes when so many people have the freedom to act however they like with no real repercussions. |
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